Making preparations for the wedding and creating a plan for your future together is so thrilling. However, life starts after the honeymoon is over. And even the most committed pair will undoubtedly realize that living as a married couple is, shall we say, less than stimulating at times, regardless of how beautiful their marriage may be. Let's face it, you love the other person, but spending the entire day with that person creates a lot of repetitive activities that, if you're not careful, could sour your relationship and leave you both feeling dissatisfied with what is otherwise a really loving connection.
Therefore, it's important for couples to actively engage in their marriage rather than passively hoping that it would stay exciting on its own. Instead, it's crucial that partners take a few simple steps to add some excitement to their unions.
1. Pursue Individual Interests
If you spend every waking hour doing and experiencing the same things, you cannot have anything interesting to say. As opposed to what some newlyweds believe, having separate interests is a sign of a strong marriage. Because you each have different hobbies, you each have something special to contribute to talks. This makes it more likely that you will both have insightful and, dare I say it, exciting things to say to one another.
2. Unexpected Occurrences
When you were dating, coming up with the idea for the impromptu event felt fairly natural. However, when we get more at ease in our relationships and busier with life's responsibilities, we have the propensity to rely on the strength of our connections and fail to maintain spontaneity as a result. Plan a brand-new afternoon or evening event to shake up the routine. Try the show your partner has been dying to watch, or go to the brand-new eatery that just debuted.
3. Never Make a Separation Threat.
This is more of a rule to keep things sound than it is to keep things exciting. Only when both partners are secure in their commitment to one another can a relationship progress and continue to be interesting. As a result, establish a rule that neither you nor your partner may ever threaten to file for divorce or separation. Establish the rule that if you threaten to leave, you will leave to follow through on your threat. It is a strict rule, but one that must be followed if your marriage is to withstand the ups and downs that are inevitable in every marriage.
4. Weekend Trips
Taking a trip together as a couple is a surefire way to add some romance to your marriage. A full-blown vacation, however, can be difficult to justify given the demands of daily living and travel expenses. So choose a one-night staycation instead. Plan a meal and a night out, then finish it off with a hotel stay. When you consider the thrill that a trip, no matter how brief, may bring to a relationship, the cost isn't too high.
5. Make the Room More Enticing
The third suggestion is to liven up things in the bedroom to add excitement to any relationship. The quality and satisfaction of your relationship are strongly correlated with your sexual life. In order to share something intimate and infuse some energy into your marriage, try trying a new position or perhaps a sexual fantasy or adult toy with your lover.
Thanks for reading! I hope you found these tips helpful. If you have any other suggestions on how to keep a marriage exciting, please share them in the comments below.
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